You are often your biggest enemy. There are things you do in your life that frequently cause you hurt, stress, pain, unhappiness, and unnecessary pressure when in reality you are causing your own pain. Offense is one of the ways that we can get stuck in our thinking where we want “justice” yet God is calling for surrender. Can you release whatever is holding you back from being your authentic self?
Have you ever been around someone where you know more of what they have been through than who they are? Let God direct your thoughts not your emotions. How do you fix your heart issues? Take it to God. Be authentic with Him.
“Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” -Psalms 139: 23-24